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Support Ms. Taormino!

Support Ms. Taormino!


Award-winning author, columnist, sex educator, and filmmaker Tristan Taormino was set to be the keynote speaker at Oregon State University’s Modern Sex conference, scheduled for February 15-16, 2011. Yesterday, she was uninvited by a university representative, who cited her resume and website as the reason.

On October 28, 2010, organizers of the OSU Modern Sex conference booked Taormino to give the keynote talk; they confirmed the date and agreed to fees, and Tristan’s management received a first draft of the contract on November 1. That contract was incomplete and sent back to OSU for revisions. As with many negotiations, the contract was pending as all the paperwork got done, but in late December, OSU again confirmed Tristan’s appearance and conference organizers told her manager to purchase airline tickets, for which OSU would reimburse her.

On Tuesday, January 18, 2011, Steven Leider, Director of the Office of LGBT Outreach and Services contacted Colten Tognazzini, Tristan Taormino’s manager, to say that the conference had come up short on funding. Tognazzini told him that since the travel was booked and the time reserved, they could work with whatever budget they did have. Leider said that would not be possible: “We have to cancel Ms. Taormino’s appearance due to a lack of funding. It has been decided that OSU cannot pay Ms. Taormino with general fee dollars, because of the content of her resume and website.” At OSU, ‘general fee dollars’ include taxpayer dollars given to the University by the Oregon State Legislature to defray various costs. They differ from ‘student activity dollars,’ which are part of every student’s tuition and help fund student groups and activities.

Taormino’s resume includes her seven books on sex and relationships, the 18 anthologies she has edited, numerous television appearances from CNN to The Discovery Channel, and her award-winning adult films. She was a columnist for The Village Voice for nearly ten years and has given more than 75 lectures at top colleges and universities including Yale, Princeton, Cornell, Brown, NYU and Columbia. Her website, puckerup.com , includes sex education information, advice, and information about the films she directs for Vivid Entertainment, one of the largest adult companies in the country.

“In my ten years of booking Tristan at colleges and universities, of course there has been some controversy. But I have never had a university cancel like this last minute,” says Colten Tognazzini, Taormino’s manager. “It’s not unusual for contract negotiations to drag on. Once they confirmed we should book her travel, I felt comfortable the event was a done deal. I continued to work with them in good faith that a signed contract would be forthcoming. I believe that the conference organizers’ hands are tied, and this decision came from much higher up. They have cancelled with less than a month’s notice during Tristan’s busiest season. She gave up other opportunities to go to Oregon. Without a signed contract, we may have no recourse, and were told we will not be reimbursed for her travel.”

Tognazzini spoke to a source at OSU who speculated that the University feared that when it went before the legislature in regards to future funding, legislators would use OSU’s funding of a “pornographer” on campus as ammunition to further cut budgets. This source, who wishes to remain anonymous, told Tognazzini, “I think they’re uninviting Tristan because they don’t want to have to defend her appearance to conservative legislators.”

“I’m extremely disappointed that OSU has decided to cancel my appearance. I’ve been protested before, but never uninvited. I have never misrepresented who I am or what I do. I am proud of all the work I do, including the sex education films and feminist pornography I make,” says Taormino. “The talk I planned to give at this conference, titled “Claiming Your Sexual Power” has nothing to do with porn, but the porn is such an easy target for anti-sex conservatives and censors. I find it ironic that one of the missions of the conference is to understand diverse perspectives of sexuality. Apparently, my perspective—one of educating and empowering people around their sexuality—isn’t welcome at OSU.”

If OSU students and others still want to hear Taormino speak, she will be teaching two workshops at She Bop in Portland on February 13 and 14. “She Bop supports a healthy perspective on sex and sexuality and we are proud to have Tristan Taormino present two years in a row at our shop in Portland. Tristan is a leading educator paving the way for others to help break down the stigma around sex in this country. It is part of our mission as a female friendly adult shop to support sexual empowerment and growth,” say co-owners Jeneen Doumitt and Evy Cowan.

This is what I’m talking about. When I bitch about the opportunities that I can’t use my resumé for, this is straight up what I’m afraid of. And if we all stand behind Tristan Taormino on this one and tell Oregon State University that it’s most definitely not okay to treat people this way for any reason, to throw their own student leaders under the bus (as Ms. Taormino cites on her website), then perhaps American culture will get a little less hard on sex (no pun intended.) My heart goes out to the poor student leaders being made to feel like they’ve done something wrong–chances are, they haven’t. As a recent graduate, I’d be mortified if I were them. I’d be trying to come up with reimbursement for Ms. Taormino ASAP. It would be an almost insane amount of pressure, and unnecessarily placed on students courageous enough to stand up and lead. Especially to lead a conference on a topic so demonized by our country’s psyche. If we can’t count on a sexuality conference to cover all the bases (no pun intended), where can we go to get accurate information? Higher education against education…I’ve never heard such a thing.

If you’d like to contact Mz. Taormino with kind words of support and proclamations of her awesomeness, her information can be found on the contact portion of her website.

4 comments on "Support Ms. Taormino!"

  • jae. says:

    amen. i’m a huge fan of hers, and while we now live in an area [nyc] that is exceptionally inclusive and welcoming, this sorta mentality is the reason i left florida. those student leaders who are trying to build community, trying to promote body-positivity and general sex ed… i hope they band together and tell oregon state to go fuck themselves. maybe then they’d loosen up a little bit.

  • andygirl says:

    OSU sucks. we should try to get her at U of O instead.

    • Ali Oh says:

      She just needs to go somewhere that doesn’t have this high school mentality of censorship and stupidity. The problem is if we allow pockets of stupidity to exist, everyone loses. Everyone is ashamed to write or create pieces that are explicit in nature. Of course Ms. Taormino is pornographic…that’s the point. Her point is to get you wet and make you touch yourself and who better than the person that does that to speak at a conference on sexuality? The amount of shame that goes into their decision fuckery is astounding.

  • jae. says:

    check this out-


    crazy. great quotes from charlie glickman. though tristan says it’s not the whole story. surprise, surprise.

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